Thursday, August 20, 2009

5 Ways to Overcome Resistance to Mental Influence

When using mental influence techniques, such as the ones in Attract a New Lover with Mental Influence, some people meet with resistance from their target. Your prospective lover may be cold, rude, or even hostile towards you. Though it may be hard to believe, that’s a good thing, not a bad thing.

Signs of resistance show you that your mental influence is starting to work. It does not mean that your efforts will not work. All it means is that it will take longer for the programming to be successful. Here are five ways to overcome resistance to mental influence.

1) You can apply longer and more intense visualizing until the person’s resistance breaks down. This will increase your influence even if the person is suppressing their feelings or ignoring you. They will learn that resisting you will cause more visualizing on your part (Of course, this is all on an subconscious level since they don’t consciously know that you are using mental influence techniques on them.)

2) You can make a U-turn and visualize them very much attracted to you while, at the same time in your visualizing, you give them the cold shoulder. When you visualize, make them want you and be very eager to please you while you brush them off and reject them. This can break the person’s resistance completely because their mind cannot understand this influence or how to resist it, and, therefore, the person is defenseless.

3) You can stop doing your mental influence sessions for a few days and then start again with more force. Continue this stopping and starting if the person still resists. These pauses can be very effective because, when you are holding off on your techniques for a few days, the subconscious mind of the person feels that the pressure is off, and the person begins to let down their defenses. When the defenses go down, all your visualizing begins to creep into the person’s mind. When your mental images are blocked, they don’t fade away. They just “hang around” until an opening is found into the person’s mind. If the person is resisting, the visualizing you have done just waits and accumulates until there is a clear opening into the mind (such as when their defenses are down).

4) If the person is showing signs of being fearful about the new sexual feelings you are creating in them, use your visualizing to slow down the passion. It’s sometimes best to begin with a gentle approach, and then later you can slowly build up to intense, erotic scenarios. Visualize being friends at first and doing friend-type things (non-threatening) and then work up to sexual things after a few weeks. This technique is especially important if you are trying to get a person to fall in love with you. You first visualize the person being happy and comfortable with you; maybe laughing and playing, and then put in the sexual scenarios when you have fully instilled the “safe” scenarios.

5) If their unconscious mind can’t handle the load of your influence, the person may even try getting away from you. This can occur even if they don’t know you, but are resisting subconsciously. It doesn’t matter how far the distance (the farther the better) since their defenses will go down. You can continue to do your work, and your influence will gain entry into their mind much more easily. If you continue your mental influence after they move, they will begin to miss you terribly. The only problem is that you won’t be able to monitor their reactions or signs of changed behavior, but that’s no problem because sparks should fly the next time they see you.

If the person you are working is resisting to some extent, then work with one or all of these techniques. Be very alert of their signs so that you can use the best technique. Some people get ill from energy/strength loss when trying to wrestle against your influence. Sooner or later, their subconscious mind will give up if you keep up the work. They will become yours.

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30 comments:

Crystal said...

Hi Caitlin does mental influence actually work on a person. There are many debates on how mental influence may not work. Thank you for answering my questions.

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Yes, it can actually work. I'm guessing many of the "debaters" have never tried it.

Anonymous said...

Can this also work on a person of the same sex you are trying to attract to you?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Gender doesn't matter.

sarah said...

Hi, this girl was talking to my guy and we broke up. They are now dating. How do I get them to break up? Do I send negative feelings and thoughts of her? Or will he mistake those as thoughts of me?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Get rid of her first. Attraction doesn't work very well on someone in a relationship.

sarah said...

How do I get rid of her? I can send negative thoughts about her. If I send negative feelings about her, will he mistake them for negative feelings towards me? I was with him for 5yrs and I want him back.

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Send negative images about and thoughts which include her name.

sarah said...

Should I send negative feelings as well?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

The images and thoughts should cause negative feelings.

sarah said...

Thank you I will try it :)

King Majesty said...

This girl use to flirt with me smile laugh giggle when I kiss her on her b-day she ignores me now what do I do about it? Did not reply to me either I know she liked me

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Without any punctuation, it's a little hard to understand what you're saying, but I think you're saying that a girl used to be friendly to you, but now she isn't.

Maybe you did something to offend her or make her mad. You should ask her, or if that's not possible, a friend of hers.

Anonymous said...

I currently have no problem talking to individuals calling up their sub-conscious they answer my questions however when i ask them to text me a time when we can get together they do not respond. I give them my cell # and they repeat it back to me but nothing and they have said they have sent me a message. I don't want to send them one as obviously they are not conscious of my request. How do I cross over to their conscious mind and or get them to react to my request?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Transmitting detailed, "complicated" directions to the subconscious won't work usually. The subconscious is emotional. Try to transmit emotions and feelings, not information.

Anonymous said...

Hi Cathy,
The girl who flirt on me has breakup with me due to some family issues, After I did some mental influence session she came to me but again sometimes she behaved rude, Cold and hostile towards to me now she felt in illness so all mentioned things in this article is happened, Please let me know can I continue with sessions and what will may be the result, Thanks

Caitlin MacKenna said...

This article gives five suggestions.

Anonymous said...

Thank you cathy,

I will keep do my work and keep you posted

Anonymous said...

Dear Cathy,

I am keep on working in this and finding so many unbelivable things is happening but the I am not getting the result what I expecting, Please let me know what can I do

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Work on your visualization and the amount of time you spend per session. Mental influence works better when the person is sleeping. That's inconvenient, but sometimes you have to sacrifice to obtain results.

Anonymous said...

Thank you Cathy,

I will keep do my work and keep you posted

Anonymous said...

To try and make someone love me, should I send her instructions to make her fall in love with me or should I send my true feelings and emotions to her subconscious?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Visualize what you want to happen - her loving you.

Anonymous said...

Damn. I knew I wasnt crazy and people could be influenced by thoughts. A lil off topic but how wary should you be of psychological damage from pushing people against their basic behaviour patterns? Or is it not really an issue?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

It isn't really an issue.

Anonymous said...

Thanks for the quick reply

Anonymous said...

Hi can this be used to influence a married woman

Caitlin MacKenna said...

You could try, but generally attraction well on people in relationships.

LUH SAHJ said...

Can you use remote influence on someone who doesn't know you exist like a celebrity? I only met him once though and we talked for a bit. Also what are the signs that it's working on your target? And how long should it be done in a day? From what time to what time?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Don't waste your time trying to influence people who don't know you. Even if you could influence them, how would they know how to get together with you> The sign that it's working is that the person responds as you wish them to. The best time is My other articles on mental influence go into detail about how to do it.