Thursday, August 13, 2009

Attract a New Lover with Mental Influence

Mental influence is one-way telepathic communication. It can be directed to a particular person, or it can be broadcast like a radio or television signal. One use for mental influence is to attract a new lover with particular qualities that you want, or to attract a particular person. Using mental influence to attract a new lover is a simple process. You don't have to believe in it; you just have to do it.

1) Start by creating a thought form of your ideal lover, or of the particular person whom you are trying to attract. Close your eyes and imagine the body of your lover life sized in three dimensions. Take as much time as you need to do this step. The more vivid your mental image, the more effective your mental influence will be.

2) In your mind, begin making love with your lover thought form. Be as realistic as you can. Involve all of your senses. You must feel the thought form body when you touch it.

3) While making love with your lover thought form, think about his or her qualities. Say to yourself, "I love your hair color, eye color, the softness of your skin, etc. I enjoy the way your..." and continue with this type of inner dialogue during the lovemaking. Picture the qualities of your lover as vapor inside his or her body.

4) When you feel ready, transfer your energy to your lover thought form. Picture your energy in the form of a vapor flowing from your penis or vagina and filling the thought form.

5) You can repeat step 3 and 4 as long as you want though spending 15-30 minutes on your mental influence session is about right. When you are finished, don't think about it anymore.
If you keep thinking about your objective, your thought form stays attached to you. You have to release your thought form, so it can reach its target.

6) Repeat the steps 1-5 daily until you achieve results, which could take from a few hours to a few weeks. If you don't get results within a month, there are three possible problems: 1) your mental imagery is not vivid enough to create a viable thought form; 2) you are obsessing about your objective, and, thereby, not allowing your thought form to reach its target; or 3) you are not getting out or going anywhere that you could meet your new lover.

One caution: don't try to use mental influence to attract a "celebrity" unless you already know that person. Famous people have so many people fantasizing about them that it is very difficult for your thought form to get through to them. What is possible is that you will attract a person who resembles your image of the celebrity. If that's good enough for you, go for it.


Some say that using mental influence to attract a particular person is wrong because it "violates free will." Magical traditions all over the world disagree with that viewpoint, and I personally don't see how mental influence is different from the other methods people use to attract new lovers, such as sexy clothes, perfume or cologne, music, etc. However, if you do think it's wrong, don't do it. Just use mental influence to attract your ideal lover, leaving it to the universe to send the right person.

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94 comments:

t4193 said...

You said to do the steps till you see results.. when you say results, do you mean you actually meet the person you visualize or you start to see people who look similar to your visualization?
Thank you

Caitlin MacKenna said...

It could be either. Don't insist on the first if the alternatives are attractive.

summi said...

hey i bought your books and yeah i am happy with the information they provide.
I had strong emotions with this girl but now because of particular incidences she might have some hatered in her heart towards me.
So i have been trying to attract her using your psychic influence.
I visualize and all.
So do you think think that i am powerful enough to break the barriers of her hatered and let go the love she has been blocking her heart

Caitlin MacKenna said...

I would work first on alleviating her hatred towards you. After that, you can work on attracting her.

Anonymous said...

I am in love with a co-worker. He has a girlfriend. I want him be attracted to me with out hurting his actual girlfriend because I know how painful it is. We had an affair around 3 months ago (I felt int that time he might have a girlfriend althoug he said he hasn't). Do you think I can make him fall in love with this exercices.... I think he was attracted to me before but I was still thinking in my ex... now I want him to feel attracted to me again

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Generally, mental influence and spells for attraction don't work as well on a target in a relationship. Breaking up the relationship first and then working on attraction is more likely to be successful.

nikola1996 said...

So what, If I accidently think of this girl after doing your mind exercise, it wont work?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Just don't obsess about what you're doing. Do your session and then go about your normal business until the next session.

Stefan said...

if this guys is in love with someone else, (not in relationship)will it work??? because he knows that I like him, but he dosen`t want to talk to me, (he dosen`t hate me but...)

Anonymous said...

well can you please tell me how to not obsess about the thought form..?? I find myself thinkin about how she will be feeling.. i want to know how to let go the though form.. Please help

Caitlin MacKenna said...

The best way to not obsess about anything is to have a life. Do things that occupy your mind and body - work, read, write, or whatever.

Anonymous said...

i love one person secretly but i dont want to talk or meet..i just want to inform him telepathically that i love him so much...pls help me what to do

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Just change the visualization to what you want to happen instead of making love.

crorex1 said...

I am more kinesthetic than visual, so when I visual I can feel my lover's body extremely well but cannot see it. Does it matter?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

No, feeling should work the same as seeing.

crorex1 said...

It's me again. Just want to say thanks, This has worked many times for me. I have attracted beautiful women with this technique. It works.

crorex1 said...

Since my last interaction with you, i have tried this technique, and i must say it does work. Very well indeed =) Thank you. Amazing how something like this that looks so silly when you read it can actually create a change in reality. Unbelievable, yet so incredible that i am now a believer, lol.

Anonymous said...

Where did you find this technique?
have you tried it?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

It's an old standard. Of course, I've tried it.

Caitlin MacKenna said...

You're welcome. Nothing works unless you try it.

Anonymous said...

HI Caitlin, i found your website from another website "evocationmagic.com" on topic related to Gary Brodsky book "Power of Darkness". Caitlin, i want to ask that is those drawings really work?Some of his drawings do not have clear instructions. Like "THE LADDER OF POWER", he mentioned that you can draw it on paper but which paper and draw with which stuff? Can you please tel me as you are experienced person please? You can share your views on my email as well if you do not want to mentions this on your blog. But please kindly reply. "masterminduk7@yahoo.com"

Thanks in advance

Caitlin MacKenna said...

I remember trying at least one spell, and it worked perfectly. I just followed the directions Brodsky provided. His book falls into the "modern grimoire: category. Brodsky is obviously not a traditionally-trained practitioner, but his methods can still work.

Anonymous said...

Thanks lovely Caitlin. But i searched on internet but i did not find Brodsky's book drawings else where. He claimed they are related to Santeria but i did not find it in Santeria. By the way, do you have any idea that the drawings he mentioned in his book belong to which occult branch?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

The drawings not related to Santeria might be from Palo Maayombe.

Anonymous said...

You are right. It might be related to Palo Maayombe. But when i searcgh it on google, i even can't find these in Palo. Palo do have these kind of drawings but i did not see on internet which Gary mentioned in his book. Anyway. most people including you say that his drawings do work so i am going to do it. Thanks

Anonymous said...

Dear Caitlin, hope you doing well. Caitlin, you mentioned on blog of other website about Carl Nagel. I have read some of his books. I just want to ask is Carl Nagel a famous person in magic and occult science? I mean is his books are considered credible in world of magic and occult? Let me know please dear. And caitlin can you also recommend me any credible book on magical talismans? Thanks very much

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Carl Nagel has been popular for at least twenty years. His works mainly consist of taking traditional magical systems and simplifying them so that the average reader can understand and use them. Traditionalists and purists don't particularly like him for that reason.

A couple of authors I like that not everyone has heard of are Basil Crouch and Draja Mickaharic.

Anonymous said...

Dear Caitlin, so all these authors Carl, Basil and Draja are authentic and experienced authors as well as practitioners.

Caitlin, i read Some of Carl books and it fascinated me quiet a lot. Caitlin, "The black pullet science of magical talismans", which was written by unknown author in 18th century,what you think about it? The talismans and conjuration that have mentioned in that book, do you think that are authentic??

By the way, Carl have mentioned many things from that book in his books too. So i think The black pullet is authentic too, otherwise author like Carl may never quote anything from that book.

Caitlin, kindly tell me an authentic book of black magic. And does black magic can harm the caster? Does it really back fire?

Thanks a lot for your valuable answers. I appreciate that.

Regards

Caitlin MacKenna said...

It's unlikely that you would be able to use any of the grimoires in their original form. Better to use something by Nagel or Crouch, or the folk magic spella of Draja Mickaharic.

Karma is a made-up belief. Rulers invented the concept of karma to control their subjects. It was adopted by the "Jesus in a dress" Wiccans to make themselves seem more acceptable to society. NO traditional magical system believes in karma.

Anonymous said...

SO concept of KARAM is not true and was developed by some practitioners to keep the things and control in their hands. Carl also mentioned that yo can safely use black magic.

I read some of the stuff of Draja. He is good and his book on uses of magnet is really good.

Caitlin, i also read your spell "sex-spell-to-attract-lover". I am going to do it on a girl. We both have good hello hi. Tell me one thing. How long will it take to put effect? U also mentioned that casting the spell on waxing moon is good. If we cast it on waning moon, does it not work at all? Second can we say this spell is related to Black magic?

Thanks

Caitlin MacKenna said...

No telling how quickly the spell will work, but it should be within a week if you get out and try to make it happen. Attraction spells are definitely weaker when performed during a waning moon. I don't consider this to be even close to black magic.

Anonymous said...

HI Caitlin, Thanks for your reply. I also think this sex spell is not black magic. But some people think that way , that is why i asked from u.Can you give little definition that what is black magic? Is it a magic in which we invoke evil spirits or demons? what is it actually?

Caitlin, can you tell me any spell which can tell us that either we have been cursed or hexed by someone or not? IF there is, is it possible to find out who has done that on us? I have heard that there are some spells who can inform us in dreams that either someone has cursed or hexed us or not. Kindly tell in this regards.

Many Thanks

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Black magic is simply using magic to harm someone. You can use a divination method to discover who may have cast a spell on you, but most people who think they've been hexed haven't been. Quite a few people are somewhat narcissistic or paranoid and think that other people are jealous of them or plotting against them.

Anonymous said...

Thanks Caitlin, Can you please tell me any divination method to find out about curse of hex? Or you can kindly send me any other authentic web link for this. I will be much appreciative. Many Thanks my dear.

Caitlin MacKenna said...

The divination method is whichever one you use, not any particular one. I wouldn't bother though unless you know for certain that you harmed or angered a witch or sorcerer. Not many people can curse or hex someone, and those who can aren't likely to waste their time and energy on random acts of malice. If you're having bad luck or health problems, it's more likely that you're crossed, not cursed.

Anonymous said...

Dear Caitlin,
Actually, one of my best friend wants to know either is there any curse or hex on her. She found many talismans hidden in her house and a doll with needles.She found all this where there was a refurbishment started in her house. She found talismans in her decoration pieces and a doll with some needles in her store room. Because of finding these things, she is suspecting that she must be cursed or hexed .

Anonymous said...

Caitlin, i have heard that in black magic we invoke demons or evil powers or satanic or dark powers. In white magic we invoke spirits or "light forces" or angels. Is it true?? Like Carl wrote in his books that both light and dark forces are here to help us. If we take help from dark forces, is there any harm in that?
If we are using dark forces to our benefit and not to harm other, then that is not black magic?right?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Light and dark forces are a religious construct designed to keep people powerless. The forces that can actually do something to help you are usually classified as "dark," and the forces that can't are classified as "light."

Anonymous said...

so what is the difference between light and dark forces than? Like i read demons, evil and good spirits, angles all can help u.But demons are considered to be evil. i am still confused in good and bad spirits. When we do any type of magic, which metaphysical forces actually helping us? Thanks for your informative replies.

Caitlin MacKenna said...

"Demon" is a derogatory term often applied to the gods and goddesses of the religions of conquered people. It's a meaningless term. Some spirits designated as angels are destructive. What matters is what a spirit does, not what it's called..

Anonymous said...

Dear Caitlin, in your personal view, which author/oculist you would rate higher out of these? carl Nagel, Basil Crouch and Draja. Can you also please tell me, apart from these authors, which other authors/oculist are popular and authentic? And i read on internet that Basil Crouch pen name was Nathan Elkana. is this true?
Thanks and waiting

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Basil Crouch's best-known pen name was Basil LeCroix.

Anonymous said...

Dear Caitlin, out of these three, which author you like most?
Caitlin, i read Carl Negel books. In his books, the methods he described to call Goetic spirits are easy. But if you read some other books, the methods are pretty complex to call Goetic spirits. Have you ever tried Carl Negel methods?

Caitlin, if you have ever worked with Goetic Spirits, can you please tell me which is the most effective way to call these spirits? If u know any book or author, kindly let me know.Thanks very much

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Nagel's methods work just fine. Persistence is the key. You keep doing the ritual until the spirit performs the task, which may take days or weeks. Also, offering payment is a good idea.

sleightly said...

Can I use this method to attract a new lover entirely even though I may be in a relationship.

Anytime I am practicing this technique, I get near to the peak of masturbation and it annoys me, it feels as if you are fucking yourself?

I really want to use it to attract a new sexual relationship with another person entirely but I do not have anyone in mind, will it work?

Anonymous said...

Thanks Caitlin. You guide so true. I really love you for this.
Ok i will follow Carl Negel methods. He is authentic as well. Caitlin, have you every summon Goetic spirit Asmodeus? According to Solomon, he teaches astrology, mathematics etc. But many occult people say he is also demon of lust and sex. He can help in bringing opposite sex and can crate lust in desire partner.What do you think about Asmodeus? Is he really a powerful demon of lust and sex?

Anonymous said...

Caitlin, another question regarding offering to spirits. What do they like most in offerings? If we offer our blood, how much should be offer and what is the best way to offer blood? i heard that they like blood offering. what others we can offer?
Thanks

Caitlin MacKenna said...

You don't have to have anyone particular in mind. Simply visualize an "ideal" person.

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Most spirits have multiple powers.

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Payment to spirits to complex to discuss in a comment. I cover it in my ebook, and Draja Mickaharic covers it in his book Magic Simplified.

Anonymous said...

Caitlin, i think different spirits like different kind of offerings? what about Amadeus? What you think what kind of offerings he likes? And may i ask another question? Asmodeus and Sitri, both consider to be demons of Lust? are both equally powerful and which one is more safe to use?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Sitri is mainly a lust spirit. I have no idea what payment Asmodeus wants. That's up to you to find out.

Anonymous said...

I read that Sitri can create lust in both man and woman. She can also force them to show theirself naked. Caitlin, both asmodeus and sitri can be used for lust and sex purpose i think? Also, have u ever evoke or invoke goettic spirits? if yes, which is the best method to follow? let me know please.

Caitlin MacKenna said...

If you've heard something then do something. Why ask me?

Anonymous said...

because everything heard is not authentic. But you are authentic person and experienced, that is why i ask from u. Thanks for your answers.
Caitline, Carl Nagel methods to summon goetic spirits, have you ever used them? in your experience, what is the best method to summon gaettic spirits?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Sometimes questions become a substitute for action. You have been asking questions for a month. How many spells or rituals have you done in that time? How many could you have done?

Anonymous said...

Great technique. Just a quick question, as a guy I felt a lot of sexual energy build as I did it. Is that OK, or should I try to control it and tone it down?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

The technique won't work without the sexual energy.

Anonymous said...

Dear Caitlin, actually i was clearing my concept, that is why i was asking questions. I did 2-3 spells, mentioned by Carn Nigel in his book "Demonic Magic". And waiting for the result now.

Thanks

Anonymous said...

Hi Caitlin, hope all is well on your side. Caitlin, if you have worked with Goetic spirits, can you please tell me which Goetic spirit is to evoke which can help in to go to overseas country? Kindly let me know please. Thanks

Caitlin MacKenna said...

That's something that you can look up easily. There are copies of the Lemegeton all over the internet.

Anonymous said...

When you say transfer your energy, do you mean to actually orgasm, or just mentally intend for the energy you built up to move from you to the other person? Thanks in advance.

Caitlin MacKenna said...

The latter.

David said...

Hey, what do you think about Gary Brodsky's ritual services?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

I don't know anything about them.

David said...

You talked about Gary's Power of Darkness ebook before and that one of the rituals worked for you. Does that mean his ritual services would work in your opinion?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

If he performs those rituals, they should.

David said...

Which is more powerful in your opinion to attract a new lover: your love magic ebook or mental influence method?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

They aren't really comparable since mental influence is one method, and my ebook has several different types of magical spells and rituals. Both mental influence and magic take some time and effort.

David said...

Would you say that mental influence is easier since you do not require anything other than your mind? Typically, how long does it take to do the mental influence / spells / rituals before you see obvious signs of the girl falling in love with you? Finally, if you do get together with the girl, do you recommend continuing to do the mental influence / spells / rituals still?

David said...

Which method do you recommend doing then?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Love magic and mental influence are different approaches to the same problem. You can use one or the other or both, depending on your preferences.

David said...

So if I were to use the mental influence method, how fast on average do I tend to get results?

Another thing: do you have to visualize your love interest's face very clearly or would having a good sense of feeling be enough?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

The better the visualization, the better the results usually, but if you don't get results within a month, it probably isn't going to work. Don't waste your time on someone who is in a relationship.

Dalton Hollander said...

Dear Caitlyn, I had a question involving another article of yours. It doesn't have a comment section so that's why I'm asking here. But in this article http://paranormaldimension.blogspot.com/2007/04/mental-influence.html I wanted to know if using a photo of the person would also work. Thank you.

Caitlin MacKenna said...

A photo can assist with visualization, but it can't substitute for it.

David said...

For the mental influence method at http://paranormaldimension.blogspot.sg/2007/04/mental-influence.html, let's say I want a person to get to know more about me (becoming great friends), I would phrase it as 'I want to know more about [My Name]'. Is that right?

While I'm giving the suggestions, should I keep the other party's face in my mind the whole time? What happens if you drop the other party's face for a second?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Yes, your phrasing is correct. Visualize as best you can. That's all you can do.

Dalton Hollander said...

Just one more question about this method. Does it matter how you visualize it? Like does it matter if you visualize making love to them in 3rd person watching it or in 1st person as yourself?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

First person.

David said...

So Caitlin, if you do not see the other party for like 2-3 weeks and during this period you give mental suggestions daily whereby the other party wants to get to know you more, would it still work when you see them again 2-3 weeks later?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Probably.

Anonymous said...

Hi Caitlin, can I used it on my ex, we just broke up recently. He hurt me deeply but I cannot let go.. Should I use it on him or on an 'ideal guy' ? I still love him very much but there's so much negativity in our relationship. Thanks.

Anonymous said...

Can I use this spell on 2 guys simultaneously?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Getting your ex back is more of a self-esteem booster than anything else. It proves you right and him wrong, but once you've done that, will you be happy? He's obviously not an ideal guy.

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Probably not. It takes focus and energy to attract one person with mental influence. If you haven't attracted one person by that method yet, don't try attracting two.

Anonymous said...

Thanks for answering my question. It means a lot to me. Ya, you are right, I should focus on the right guy. Wish me luck~ =)

Caitlin MacKenna said...

Good luck!

Anonymous said...

Today is my 3 rd day doing this mental exercise. Last night I chance upon my high school classmate at an religion event I accompanied my mum to. He used to be very cool and sat in front of me in class. Surprisingly he remembers my name. We hit it off very well..we haven't met for more than a decade..prior to doing this mental exercise, I was slightly skeptical cos my chance of meeting guys in my daily life is almost zero. It's always kids, parents and married friend. Thank you so much Caitlin.=)

Caitlin MacKenna said...

You're welcome. Keep at it.

David said...

Have you heard of subjective influence and do you think it works?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

It means mental or remote influence. Silva calls it subjective communication.

David said...

So what do you think about combining subjective influence + mental influence? Meaning I would wake up in the middle of the night in mental contact with the other person and then visualize the person's face while making suggestions for 10 minutes and fall back asleep. Do you think this would work?

Caitlin MacKenna said...

That's not a combination: just another method of mental influence. Jose Silvan invented the term "subjective communication" back when he first started marketing the Silva Method. He couldn't very well sell a method for hundreds of dollars that people could get for the price of a book by Atkinson and others, so he invented his own term. The Christian Scientists back in the nineteenth century called it "adverse therapy" when it was used to influence people for the sender's benefit rather than the receiver's.